When we do not consciously look for something and instead rely on the conditioned habits and neural synaptic assumptions of believing our own false beliefs, then our reality doesn't change.
However when our subconscious prompts us (for example via a dream or a traumatic experience, essentially shocking or forcing us) to look consciously in the right place, as if we are a soul rather than an 'alive human being' we then discover the actual reality.
Schrodinger's Cat is an attempt to explain this:
That everything is of uncertain reality, hidden to us, until we observe it.
Besides the book ‘Entangled Life,’ by Merlin Sheldrake,
Best-selling author and original thinker Sharon-Drew Morgen's new book, ‘How?’ (Sept 2023) teaches us how to ‘rewire’ our neural networks, and thereby cascades these transcendent energies for evolutionary change to other visionary curious fearless learners and teachers.